Theme for 2009

This is an update since I came back from my Cambodia Trip on 1st Jan 09. Here were some of the cool things I did during the trip:

• Rode on a white horse for the 1st time in my life!!!
• Went horse riding again, this time I rode for an hour around the country side & was able to gallop and maneuver the horse quite confidently!
• Went on a Quad Adventure for the 1st time (Quad is a 4-wheel BIG motor bike)
• Had 3 massages (including 1 unforgettable one *shudders*)
  
• Celebrated count down and the whole lights in the street went OUT
• Nearly did not make it for the airport trip back to Singapore in time
• Tried ermmm.... fried cricket for the 1st time
• Went temple-shopping/ tomb-raiding. I finally experienced a thing called, "Overdose of temple-visiting"
• Went Angkor Wat 3 times (it's supposed to be one of 7 wonders of the world)
• Watched National Treasure & South Park in Hotel >_<
• Went to Cambodia mine (the energy of the place affected me that I cried)
• Celebrated my b'day out of Singapore for the 1st time
• Went to play Casino legally for the 1st time in my life! And actually won! =D
  

In short, many 1st times in my life. It was qte a gd experience, save for the fact that Siem Reap was too pricey for a 3rd world country! If you are keen to visit Cambodia, try Phnom Penh instead.

After I'm back, I did...

• Learnt Tarot reading & created my tarot cards
• A guest for BLP preview
• Sign up for BLP wave 8
  
• Attracted an opportunity in AdvantEdge as Accounts Executive, a role which i've always wanted
• Attracted several other job opportunitues
• Watched 2 movies
• And a lot more mandane stuffs

Every year, it's customary for me to create a theme for 2009. So before Jan and CNY is over, here's My Theme for 2009:

Self-Love, Personal Results, Family


Happy New Year to All!

My Intent list for year 2009

What would be really cool and amazing in year 2009:

1. Having at least 3 quality/ ideal romantic relationships
2. Read at least 20 good books/e books
3. Created another new personal website
4. Take on 5 - 10 non ECI private coaching clients, each paying $50 - 250/hr
5. Be featured in 3 magazines, TV News, and newspapers for good personal publicity
6. Got my Associate Coach Certification by International Coach Federation
7. Got 3 awards, certifications and accolades
   
8. Deepen rewarding and loving relationship with my family, closed friends, loved ones and myself
   
9. Be able to do "yi zhen jian xue"/ one-shot kill coaching many times
   
10. Many, many personal results in the 10 domains: work/career, finance, romance/ social, family, freedom, fulfillment, health, effectiveness, coaching, and leading
11. Led "Making Courage Work" program and half-tech programs!
    
12. Led in ECI more than 15 times, and non- ECI more than 5 times
13. Have weekly family dinners/ outings
14. Deep phone chats almost every night with my closest friends
15. Become more seductive, alluring, and graceful
16. Managed and maintained 2 profitable websites/ blogs
17. Picked up violin again. Be able to play "Chang hai yi sheng xiao" and "Hey Jude" on violin. Go for violin classes and get grade 3!
    
18. Attract really amazing business lobangs/ opportunities and have the capacity, space and skills to take them on
19. Be a good strategist, and use my sharp business acumen
20. Know in depth of successful business mechanics
21. Successfully managed 2 personal profitable businesses/ start-ups/ enterprises
22. Take on a certification in either combat/ dancing/ music
23. Be debt-free - Including tuition fee and bank loans! That would be amazing!
24. Master my chinese language - can lead TCC preview/ half-tech program in Mandarin
25. Get both my parents to take TCC - that would be "stunning news of the year"
26. Get my brother to take POS and BLP
27. Be very healthy and play many good bball games
28. Bring my family to tour taiwan
    
29. Celebrate my 25th b'day with my sisters and closed friends
30. Growth in processing, coaching, energetic and leading skills
31. More proficient in Bahasa Melayu and Spanish language. Pick up a new dialect - Hokkien/ Cantonese
    

Year 2008's Reflections

The year is almost coming to an end. I'm going away to Cambodia to celebrate my b'day with a bunch of conscious beings, in a nice holy-type place. I'll be visiting temples and buddhist statues. What a way to spend my b'day, and counting down to year 2009!

Here's a recap of what I wrote in 01 Jan 2008:

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Theme for year 2008

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU!

2006's theme: Love, Wisdom & Courage

2007's theme: Performance, Effectiveness & Results

2008's theme: Integrity, Relationships & Discipline


INTEGRITY: Honoring all my words and promises. When I say "X", "X" happens. Having a clutter-free life and walking each step feeling clean. Being a source of Light and causing others to be source of Light in their world.

RELATIONSHIPS: Build deep, meaningful and fulfilling relationships with the people in my world. With my loved ones; to work on patience, space, love, acceptance and championing their growth. For my clients; to work on building lasting relationships, creating value, transforming their lives and championing their growth."

DISCIPLINE: To enforce integrity and ensuring my foundation is solid. To keep hitting "X" and scoring critical wins in my life. Chop wood, carry water and climb hill consistently to increase the speed and precision in getting my results. To embrace humility and inspiration in my beingness. To ensure I work on all areas of my life and be a well-rounder. To immerse myself in joy, magic, good health, good fortune and love in every tasks I take on.

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I'm always very cautious about what I wrote as my theme for the year, because it is damn scary to observe on hindsight how life has been governed by the 3 themes. For example, I saw how I worked my ass off in 2007 as I gun for effectiveness, performance and results. In this year, so many incidents popped up to remind myself on my integrity (or lack of) and discipline (or lack of). I shall have fun mulling over my 2009's theme over at Cambodia.

Here's a summarized list of my happenings in 2008:

1. Led 5 previews (3 "The Courage to Create" previews and 2 "Power Memory Coaching Program" previews)
2. Finally passed my C2 rank supervisor coach exam - So now i'm officially a supervisor coach! (it means i can coach & supervise other coaches)
   
3. Created my coach website, one that I can truly call it my own - http://bethesource.wordpress.com
4. Entered into a partnership for education business - check this out after you have checked out my own website k? ; ) http://seedseducation.wordpress.com/
5. Graduated from SMU, School of Information Systems Mgmt, double major in Marketing
6. Got into (and ended) another romantic relationship
7. Co-authored and created a book within 24 hours, which become local best seller in Kinokuniya, Borders and Harris Bookstores, and featured in Channel NewsAsia, Channel 5, 8, Suria, Channel U, teletext etc - http://pickmeup-book.com/
8. Coached 6 clients and 6 buddy coaches. Worked with someone to lose 15.5kg and doubled his income with 7 weeks, another to create a 3-min animation and website from scratch within 7 weeks, another to lose 7.5kg and improve her discipline in studies, another in his communication and confidence etc. It's amazing!
9. Coached myself out of my 3rd depression in my life (and the worst out of the 3). Don't think anything can get me down so easily after that depression
   
10. Got a double promotion in my 1st week at my 1st job after i graduated from SMU. Ex-boss managed to create a new position for me before I left the company. It was a cool experience
11. Graduated from my 9-month Basic Leadership Program
    
12. Invested and upgraded my skillsets via these programs: Freedom in Money (I reviewed this program. Took it in year 2007), Guerrilla Marketing, Principles of Seduction-Reviewer (POS-R) and Professional Coach Training Program 2
13. Bumped into many many many old friends while I was working at Dreamworks
14. Cleaned up my integrity in different aspects of my life (physical room, work, finances etc)
15. Managed to cross the 50th events that I managed between year 2007 and 2008
16. Went to M'sia for seafood. It's the 1st time I took a bus there in the middle of the night!
17. Did personality reading with strangers and got paid for it! Weird and cool experience!
18. Went to Thailand, M'sia, and Cambodia (in a few more days)
19. Got offered a $3k deal to managed a Dinner and Dance, just by passing my namecard to a stranger i met in less than 5 minutes at a networking event
20. Got myself an educational trainer position to train pri and sec sch students in open source
21. Got myself decent paying freelance writing assignment(s)
22. Had 4 job offers after I graduated
23. Had a customer service issue - made me learnt so much about the importance of follow up and cleaning up your integrity
24. Turning 24 in a couple of weeks' time
25. Experienced what is it like to start researching, planning, writing and editing my assignments 3 hours before my submission deadlines
26. Realized that I have improved in my fighting skills - more disciplined and speed in my punches
    
27. Joined the Course Supervisor Body
28. Was a Course Supervisor for a 1st time for TCC preview and Power Memory Coaching Program (June). Had to juggle between being a program manager, course supervisor, course leader support, and assistant for Power Memory Coaching Program
29. Experienced what is it like to be super super broke, and what it takes to get out of it
30. Was tour guide for my m'sia and USA cousins for the 1st time
31. Took on an ad-hoc painting assignment, survived quality check, and got paid for it!
    

What the f*ck am I doing here?

I can't believe it's almost 3 months since I last had an entry.

A lot of things happened during these 3 months; well, it always does, anyway.

A few noteworthy things that i did lately:

• Graduated from SMU, finally!
• Just joined Dreamworks. I got double promotion on my 1st week of work - 1st promotion was to Executive Consultant. 2nd promotion was to Corporate Trainer.
  
• Brought my M'sian and USA cousins to tour around Singapore last weekend. Think if i switch to tour guide, i could probably excel too =P
• Assisted at "The Door" and "Wave 6 Basic Leadership Program 3rd weekend".
  
• As i worked at Dreamworks over the past 1 week, i bumped into several ppl.; Dianna, Xiao li, Johnny, and that Hisatomo auntie
  

After assisting at the wave 6 3rd weekend, i'm just so present to these questions:

• What the f*ck am I doing here?
• What should I do next?
• What does an extraordinary life mean to me?
• How can I fuse my higher mission/ vision to whatever i am doing now?

Ever since I graduated from my BLP, I feel really lost. Like REALLY LOST!

Kind of like, I've seen and experienced so much extraordinary moments in my life, especially within the last 2 - 3 years, that whatever i am doing now feels so damn ordinary.

It reaches a point where when it comes to my career, anything would do, b'cos they're so ordinary. I guess working at an MNC would look cool, 'cos i get to wear corporate suits and look fantastic. But after a while, it'll be the same starting point again - serving nothing but a function, and trying hard to look impressive. Then what? Isn't that what everyone else has been doing so far?

I was supposed to come up with a team name and tag line for my company. My team name is Greater Heights, and tag line is - "Lead the Way".

The Way refers to the "Dao (4)", or the path. Lead the Way refers to opening up a path of consciousness and guiding them to awakening. In layman's term, it means - "Showing people how their lives had been..... could be..... and should be....."

Honestly speaking... I'm not too sure if i can ever get to the point of integration nor stop feeling lost. I feel almost like drifting along with life.

Hope this feeling will end soon, and may i wake up each day feeling integrated, and living each moment extraordinarily. If not that, then what the f*ck am I doing here?

A message that kept me amused in the morning

I'm super amused! =D


"HI THERE

am tony by name it a pleasure for to have come across ur profile. how as your day been,hope you have a nice cool day? and full of cheers,because i just like how u look cute with your cool smilling face,when i saw your pics,i wounder how its shine like a braided diamond.Your appearance admire mine emotional feeling which led my heart into undisclosed confession about urs pretty look,in fact u're more refer to an angel.You look like a morning star,u are portrait a sexy looking lady.if u don't mind i we like you to tell me alittle about your self and u can also send me me ur yahoo id or msn if u don't mind hope read from you soon "

Personality profile

You Are An INTP The Thinker

You are analytical and logical - and on a quest to learn everything you can.
Smart and complex, you always love a new intellectual challenge.
Your biggest pet peeve is people who slow you down with trivial chit chat.
A quiet maverick, you tend to ignore rules and authority whenever you feel like it.

In love, you are an easy person to fall for. But not an easy person to stay in love with.
Although you are quite flexible, you often come off as aloof or argumentative.

At work, you are both a logical and creative thinker. You are great at solving problems.
You would make an excellent mathematician, programmer, or professor.

How you see yourself: Creative, fair, and tough-minded

When other people don't get you, they see you as: arrogant, cold, and robotic


I would make an excellent mathematician, or programmer??? OMG! >_<

Harold and Kumar Movie

I just came back from watching Harold and Kumar with my affiliate marketing team, Rosli, Johnson and Merry.

We were supposed to meet up for our usual meeting, but i proposed an outing for all of us, since the energy and drive for work was super low this week.

Anyway, i was really glad we caught the movie. 'tis the 1st time i caught a GUY MOVIE!! >_< OMG, it's so different from those generic or blond movie flicks i used to watch. It just got me closer into what guys like to do.

Honestly speaking, it's not those kind of show i'd watch again, but the guys love it! yea... and the BEST part is........ Merry enjoyed herself!!! Hahahahaha....... OMG, if you know merry and you watched the movie yourself, you'd understand how i feel if I said I was very amused seeing her enjoy herself.

Hohoho... anyway, this week is a self-love week. I had a thai massage, caught a movie (when i'm supposed to work =P well, i still believe happy workers make productive workers. Heh), and I'm gonna crash a girls' party tonight at St. James' power house. Rock on!

I'm now reading this blog on how to make money online, for the 2nd time already. If you like, you can always check it out- http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/01/how-to-build-a-high-traffic-web-site-or-blog/


Hope to pick up a gd tip or two. If anyone has got any brilliant ideas on driving traffic online or increase gd affiliates, do share with me, ok?

And if you like reading blogs, check out these other 2 websites; the 1st one is on relationships and how to let go of relationships, while the other is a blog on the different ways to pick someone up from any situations in his/her life. Cheers!

http://www.pickmeuptoday.com

http://www.pickmeupteam.wordpress.com